Worried <Worried@.> wrote in
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> I understand that age is a inevitable fact but his mind is still alert
> and responsive...
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> Thanks for the reply -
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I respect your position. It is not an easy one to be in.
I certainly am not suggesting or trying to persuade you in
any kind of decision, especially without even met the dog.
I've had to put 4 dogs to sleep over the years, and another who died at
home, all at a ripe age
ranging from 10 to 16 years old. The hardest thing for me was just what
you speak of. Having an animal that is mentally in tact, but physically
not doing so well. It was very difficult for me to totally take myself
out of the picture, and make a decision based solely on what would be
humane for the dog.
Of course, once the act of putting the animal to
sleep was done, then I dealt with the grief, brief periods of regret,
and wondering if I did the right thing, coule we have saved him, etc...
Looking back, I do not regret
what I did, and believe each dog met the end with as much dignity as
I could provide for them.I pet each one at their deaths. I was the last
image they saw in their lives.
I guess the point of this rambling is... Whatever you decide, please
make sure it is based solely on what is best for the dog. If we listen
close enough, and put our own feelings and fears aside, I believe the
animal clearly communicates to us when it is time for him or her to go.
It can be with a look they give us, a bark, whimper, or whatever. Only
you could know, since it is your companion. No, they can't speak to us,
but they certainly communicate with us regularly. The hard part is
allowing ourselves to hear them.
But if you decide it is his
time to go, please be there with him. It is an honer for you and the dog,
to know he was with the persion he idolized right up until the end.And
for you... You will leave knowing you indured the emotional pain of
the loss, and you petted, primped, and baby talked to him until he
was gone. It is important for the dogs last moments to be happy. No
crying and the like. We can do that outside in the parking lot when
It's all over. Ok, I'll stop now, tearing up here! I've done this 5 times
and it does NOT get easy.
Good luck, and if he can regain an acceptable quality of life, more
power to him! Keep us posted. We all want to learn and teach other
pet owners who will one day be placed in bad situations with tough
decisions to make.
-Tom
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