Mark Strassburger wrote:
>>but sometimes he doesn't know who's boss.
>
> Sorry to post again so soon, but after reading the post one more time, this
> phrase jumped out at me. As parrot owners we must first and foremost
> understand that no matter how much we want to be in control at all times,
> parrots are NOT like dogs. They cannot be controlled or disciplined. We
> can try to alter behaviors, but do not always thnk that we have the ability
> to be in control over them. We must learn to understand their behaviors and
> body language and always realize that they are often the ones who control
> US. It's when we begin to think that we have power to control their actions
> that birds become agressive and untameable. It is only with love and lots
> of PATIENCE that we can learn to live with these exotic creatures - and they
> with us.
Reading Bonie Monroe gives me the impression that I can become "alpha
parrot", and that Olly (my blue-front) will then obey my every command.
But then she also clips her birds, so I guess they don't have much
option. Thank you all for those pointers.
What I've learned from experience is that imposing my will on a parrot
just isn't going to happen. But he is very loving and generally
cooperative, so I guess I would rather he was his own bird, flighted,
than a cripple who obeys me and sits on me because he didn't have a
choice, and has a reliance on me just to move. I won't clip him just
yet, though I might reassess that if he gets hormonal in a few years time.
He does bash into things occasionaly, and has hit a window once or
twice. Will he learn not to try to fly through glass, or is there a
serious risk of a broken neck if he gets startled and hits a window at
full speed? Maybe I WOULD be kind to him if he can't hurt himself?
Calum
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